5 San Francisco Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapists [No Waitlist]

If you've ever felt pulled in opposite directions, shut down when you most wanted to open up, or struggled to understand why you keep repeating the same patterns, IFS therapy offers a compassionate perspective to help you gain clarity about your inner world.

At Stillpoint Therapy Collective, our San Francisco therapists are IFS-informed and use parts work to help you cultivate a stronger, deeper relationship with yourself. Meet our specialists here to find the right fit and reach out when you’re ready to begin.

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  • Amy Toig: Good fit for LGBTQ+ individuals navigating chronic illness, trauma, or life transitions

  • Jen Ottman: Good fit for high-achieving professionals dealing with burnout and relationship stress

  • Annie Patyk: Good fit for women caught in cycles of perfectionism, anxiety, and self-criticism

  • Kara Sunwell: Good fit for creatives and neurodivergent individuals

  • Ellen Ottman: Good fit for trauma survivors seeking deep, somatic, and attachment-focused healing

    If you’re unsure which therapist is right for you, contact us so we can match you.

Meet our San Francisco IFS-informed therapists

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Amy Toig

Good fit for LGBTQ+ individuals navigating chronic illness, trauma, or life transitions

As a queer- and gender-affirming therapist, I specialize in supporting LGBTQIA+ individuals and couples who are working through chronic illness, trauma, life transitions, and identity exploration. I use parts work as one component of an integrative framework that also draws on somatic therapy, mindfulness, and psychedelic-assisted therapy when appropriate. This blend of methods and specialties allows me to meet clients with complex, layered identities with a kind of clinical expertise and lived understanding that’s often hard to find.

  • Credentials: Associate Marriage and Family Therapist #147414

  • Specialty Areas: LGBTQ+-affirming therapy, queer couples therapy, chronic illness & chronic pain, anxiety & depression, trauma & PTSD, relationship issues, burnout & stress, identity exploration, life transitions

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Jen Ottman

Good fit for high-achieving professionals dealing with burnout and relationship stress

I use parts work alongside psychodynamic and attachment-oriented approaches to help high-achieving professionals understand the inner parts that drive perfectionism, burnout, and the relentless pressure to hold it all together. This insight allows them to find more ease and choice on the other side. My own experience navigating high-pressure careers and challenging family dynamics informs my work in a way that makes clients feel genuinely seen beyond clinical knowledge alone. 

  • Credentials: Associate Marriage and Family Therapist #153153

  • Specialty Areas: Professionals and executives, anxiety & stress, relationships & family dynamics, life transitions, identity & self-worth, premarital counseling & couples therapy

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Annie Patyk

Good fit for women caught in cycles of perfectionism, anxiety, and self-criticism

I integrate parts work with relational and psychodynamic approaches to help women understand and befriend the inner critics, perfectionists, and people-pleasers that often underlie the patterns that keep them stuck. My style is direct and humor-forward, and my non-pathologizing lens means your patterns are explored as purposeful adaptations, not problems to fix. I find that leading with this compassion helps the folks I work with learn how to show themselves the same acceptance.

  • Credentials: Associate Marriage and Family Therapist #148824

  • Specialty Areas: Women’s issues, anxiety & chronic stress, perfectionism, imposter syndrome, overwhelm & burnout, young adults & college students, couples therapy

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Kara Sunwell

Good fit for creatives & neurodivergent individuals

For neurodivergent individuals, creatives, and anyone who feels called to alternative approaches, I offer a warm, unconventional container that celebrates your uniqueness. I take a creative, embodied approach to parts work that blends Hakomi (a mindfulness-based somatic modality), Ecotherapy, and Creative Arts with IFS-informed therapy. If you’ve ever felt constrained or misunderstood in traditional therapy settings, I’m here to support you in the way that feels best for you.

  • Credentials: Associate Marriage and Family Therapist #149166

  • Specialty Areas: Women’s issues, creatives, entrepreneurs, neurodivergence, Highly Sensitive People, anxiety, grief, sexuality, self-esteem, trauma

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Ellen Ottman

Good fit for trauma survivors seeking deep, somatic, and attachment-focused healing

My work weaves parts-based therapy together with somatic modalities to address the wounds that language and insight alone can’t reach. As the founder of Stillpoint Therapy Collective and a therapist with more than ten years of experience, I bring an advanced, layered approach to IFS-informed work that meets the needs of clients who've been through a lot and are ready to go deeper. 

  • Credentials: Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist #124702

  • Specialty Areas: Trauma, anxiety & depression, LGBTQIA+ individuals & relationships, non-monogamous relationships, sexual trauma, grief & loss, burnout & stress, chronic pain, identity exploration, feeling stuck, life transitions

What sets our practice apart from other San Francisco IFS therapy providers

  • Somatic integration: Our therapists blend IFS-informed therapy with body-based modalities, going deeper than talk therapy alone.

  • LGBTQ+-affirming care: We have multiple LGBTQ-identified therapists on staff, with a practice-wide commitment to queer- and trans-affirming work.

  • Diverse clinical training: Our team brings varied clinical backgrounds and lived experiences, so you can find a therapist you truly connect with.

  • In-person and hybrid availability: We offer in-person sessions in San Francisco, as well as the East Bay, LA, and San Diego, in addition to telehealth throughout California.

  • Flexible scheduling: We have evening availability to make getting support as accessible as possible.

What to expect from the therapy process

Step 1: Free Consultation

After completing our intake form, we’ll reach out to set up a free, no-pressure introductory call to talk about what's bringing you in, ask questions, and get a feel for fit before committing.

Step 2: Building Safety

Your early sessions focus on establishing trust and beginning to map your inner landscape. Together, we’ll identify the parts of you that protect, carry pain, or keep you stuck, so you can start understanding yourself more fully.

Step 3: Deepening the Work

Over time, you'll develop a more compassionate relationship with your parts and begin to access the grounded Self Energy that you already possess but may have trouble staying in. Insights from the therapy room will begin to translate to real shifts in your daily life and relationships.

FAQs about internal family systems therapy

  • Internal Family Systems (IFS) is a research-supported therapy model that understands the mind as made up of distinct "parts,” each with its own feelings, beliefs, and behaviors. Developed by Dr. Richard Schwartz, IFS helps you build a compassionate relationship with those parts rather than fighting them, guided by an innate, healthy core called the "Self."

  • Yes. IFS has a growing evidence base and is recognized as an effective treatment for trauma, PTSD, depression, anxiety, and more. Many of our clients have experienced meaningful shifts in self-compassion, emotional regulation, and relationship patterns. Like any therapy, results depend on fit, consistency, and the skill of your therapist.

  • In our experience, we’ve found IFS-informed therapy especially helpful for:

    • Complex or developmental trauma and PTSD

    • Anxiety, depression, and chronic stress

    • Perfectionism, self-criticism, and imposter syndrome

    • Relationship difficulties and communication patterns

    • Burnout and identity struggles

    • People-pleasing and difficulty setting limits

    Parts work works well on its own or integrated with somatic, relational, or attachment-based approaches, which is how most of our therapists practice.

  • As with any type of therapy, IFS has its risks and drawbacks. Parts work requires a willingness to slow down and turn inward, which can feel unfamiliar if you're used to more structured, skills-focused approaches like CBT. It may also move more gradually than short-term modalities. For some clients, working through protective parts can temporarily stir up difficult emotions before things settle, which is where the therapeutic relationship can be especially supportive.

  • No, our therapists are not credentialed through the IFS Institute's formal certification program. That said, each clinician on this page has clinical knowledge of parts-based work and integrates IFS concepts—including working with protectors, exiles, and Self-energy—into their broader clinical practice. If you're specifically seeking a Certified IFS Therapist, we want you to know that upfront so you can make the best decision for your care.

  • Yes, IFS therapy is often covered by insurance. Stillpoint Therapy Collective is out-of-network with all insurance plans, so we do not bill insurance directly, but we can provide a detailed receipt you may submit to your insurance for possible out-of-network reimbursement. We encourage you to check with your provider about out-of-network mental health benefits. Yes, IFS therapy is often covered by insurance. Stillpoint Therapy Collective is out-of-network with all insurance plans, so we do not bill insurance directly, but we can provide a detailed receipt you may submit to your insurance for possible out-of-network reimbursement. We encourage you to check with your provider about out-of-network mental health benefits.

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